Fake “dom” VERSES trained empowered sub.
Know the difference!
Thanks to LH for allowing Me to post this.
THIS IS IMPORTANT
True. Everyone needs to take note, just because you identify as a submissive, doesn’t mean that you have to follow through on everything. Stick up for yourself. If something doesn’t seem right, it probably isn’t.
This is like every guy on collarme
Why I am extremely hesitant about subbing to anyone. Because of fuckers like this.
I am 90% sure that motherfucker is already a rapist. The remaining 10% is the certainty that if he’s not yet, he’s going to be.
As someone who has been somebody’s domme and somebody who constantly practices good (actually great) consent, I can safely say this is how NOT TO BE A DOM(ME) and is how to be a rapist instead. If you catch yourself talking like this guy you need to step back, stop talking and re-evaluate why you think you’re entitled to doing things to people that they don’t want to do.
And as somebody who has been raped by someone who claims to be a dom, this is exactly the kind of way he spoke about biting me after i’d specifically said I do not want any kind of biting or bruising anywhere. He then proceeded to give me over 40 bruise/bite marks during that rape, despite me constantly saying again and again not to.
This is what a rapist disguising themselves as a dom(me) looks like. If you ever catch yourself talking like this to a sub, back the fuck away and re-think things.